90 Day Fiancé’s Michael Ilesanmi Reveals How He Fights Angela Deem’s Gaslighting Behavior After Joining New Family
Summary
- Michael Ilesanmi uses Instagram to share his escape from Angela Deem’s abuse, staying unbothered by her gaslighting.
- He advises letting go of toxic past relationships to focus on a positive future, now living happily in Texas.
- Michael remains classy despite Angela’s accusations, showing who the true saint and sinner are in their story.
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star Michael Ilesanmi has a secret weapon that he’s used to guard himself from Angela Deem’s abuse since leaving her for his new family in Texas. Michael left Angela’s house in February 2024 to never return. No one knows how he managed to escape, but Michael told the police he was safe and had escaped because he didn’t feel safe around Angela. Michael has been looking healthier and happier in his latest Instagram photos now that he’s far, far away from his abuser.
Michael from
90 Day Fiancé
knows exactly how to stay unbothered by Angela’s constant gaslighting and fake narratives to make herself look like a victim.
Michael has been sharing his pent-up thoughts on social media as he has to no longer live in fear of his wife.
His Instagram Stories are an extension of his personality and his latest update has Michael hinting at how he keeps himself safe from Angela’s taunts. The video originally posted by christina_simone talks about how one should stay away from people who act like a victim after creating problems on their own. The pastor in the video explained that’s what “gaslighting” is. He also provided viewers with an antidote to this particular problem.
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Angela Is Responsible For Her Own Downfall
The video advises one to spend more time with people with whom one has a “common future” instead of a common past. To Michael, it means letting go of Angela and whatever she’s done to him in their relationship, completely to welcome his new family and new love into his life. Michael has been spotted multiple times in Texas, and although Angela claims that she doesn’t know where he is living, Michael has made the State his home. Angela has accused Michael of engaging in a conspiracy with other Nigerian men to induce U.S. citizens into marriage.
Angela was referring to the men that Michael lives with now.
Michael has not revealed their identities and doesn’t tag them on social media, but Angela did mention learning about Michael’s uncle who lived in the U.S. who he had been keeping a secret from her. It was not Michael’s fault that she didn’t know. Angela never bothered to have a heart-to-heart conversation with Michael. She didn’t know her husband had depression from her keeping him chained to his house by making him quit his job.
Angela didn’t like Michael having any friends or exploring the outside world through social media. Only Michael knows what he’s been through in the past eight years, but Angela still wants to look like she’s the one who’s been wronged. Michael stayed quiet to save his reputation. He never wanted to stoop to Angela’s levels. It all worked out in his favor because Michael is seen as a classy man who respected his wife despite her abusive behavior. It’s clear to deduce who is the saint and who is the sinner in this 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? couple.
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After
airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.
Source: christina_simone/Instagram
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? follows couples from ’90 Day Fiancé’ as they continue to navigate their lives together post-marriage, addressing challenges and triumphs that come with cross-cultural relationships and adjusting to new expectations.
- Release Date
- September 11, 2016
- Seasons
- 8
